Love Marriage Kundli Matching
In marriage issues, Indians rely on Kundali matching a lot. Those who never go to an astrologer in their whole life may once in a life time go to an astrologer for Kundali matching. It is so deep in the psyche and genes that people just do not go for a marriage alliance without getting a Kundali matching done. Even in love marriages that are approved by parents, people get the Kundali matching done.
People, now-a-days, consider that Kundali matching is only Ashtakoot or Guna Matching and nothing else. The higher the points gained, the more assured happy married life is (This is the common belief/ myth).
The second myth is that people only ask for the existence of Mangal Dosha in the horoscopes to be matched with the belief that if it is there, the one with the Mangal Dosha will become a widow or widower.
The joke here is not on the common man but on the astrologer, who has one of most noble profession of utmost responsibility. It can be understood that the common man would not know about these wrong beliefs they have, because they do not know astrology.
Let’s then break these myths.
Ashtakoot or Guna matching is actually matching of 8 criteria that are all derived from the Janma Nakshatra (Moon Star/Asterism) and the division of the same, as well as moon sign.
The 8 criteria for Ashtakoot or Guna matching are as follows:
1. Varna – Matching of the castes
2. Vashya – Attraction
3. Tara – Longevity of either
4. Yoni – Nature and characteristics
5. Graha Maitri – Natural friendship
6. Gan – Mental Compatibility
7. Bhakoot – Relative influence of one on the other
8. Nadi – Possibility of child birth
As per the chronology above, the numeric points given to each is also the same, i.e. 1 to 8 that together comes to a total of 36. It is believed that a maximum of 36 points can be achieved that is a guarantee of a happy, trouble free, blissful and long married life. Minimum points allowed for marriage are 18; lesser than that, the marriage is not suitable. This is, however, not the only and last thing to check for marriage compatibility; it is one of the tools.
This system was actually devised in the earlier days, when most Indians were never in a position to cast their natal Ascendant horoscope, for want of finances to pay to the Brahmin to cast the horoscope. Thus learned sages and scholars had devised this Ashtakoot system as it was always easy for the Brahmin, who knows the sign and Nakshatra that the Moon is transiting through and thus the common man would just consult him and get to know the sign that his child is born in and thereby name it, based on the letters assigned to each sign of the zodiac. So in future, when these poor people referred to a Brahmin for Kundali matching based on the first letter of the name, the Brahmin could easily identify the Nakshatra and sign both of them are born in and instantly calculate the Ashtakoot and thus suggest about the marriage.
Since most Indians from ages never had the option of the Ascendant horoscope, they started believing that the Ashtakoot or Guna matching is the only tool to match the horoscopes and hence such heavy reliance was on it.
Those privileged in those ancient days, to be able to have their ascendant horoscopes cast, had the benefit of getting the horoscopes matched properly, based on Ashtakoot and the Ascendant horoscope.
The Ascendant based horoscope matches the nature, tastes and hobbies and its similarity or differences based on the relations between the Ascendants and their Lords, it matches the true attraction towards each other based on the Venus signs and the relation between each other’s Moons. It matches the emotional and mental compatibility based on the Moon sign and the relation between each other’s Moons. It also includes Mangal Dosha and child birth related issues based on the Lords of the 5th House and their strengths.
The ascendant based horoscope matching is more important as it entails all the twelve signs, the true Lordships of the planets concerned, where as Ashtakoot matching is only based on the Moon – the sign and the Nakshatra it is in.
This article does not suggest that Ashtakoot/ Guna matching is not important, it is. However, it is not the only system of Kundali matching.
Before marriage majority of the families consult a astrologer for matching of the Horoscopes of the boy and the Girl. The Vedic system of Astrology has in it a age old traditional Horoscope Matching or Kundli matching system in which the placement of planet moon in both horoscopes is taken into considerations and a points are given for various descriptions. These descriptions are eight in number they are :-
5. Grah Maitri
each of the above has its own significance and have their own number of points. These all add up to 36 and a score below 18 is not considered a good match according to traditional astrology.
We are providing you a free utility to match the astrological charts of boy and a girl for the purpose of marriage through traditional method of Kundli Milan (Gun Milan).
ILove affair between a Girl and a Boy is sensitive, emotional and in many cases spontaneous. Let it be a love affair in its literary sense or an infatuation or a fascination simply carried away by sexual attraction. It is sponataneous.
In some cases, a love affair may carry some reasons.
Logical conclusions, balanced thinking, considerations of merits and demerits, and along with all these, a mutual attraction. Such love affairs generally carry in their mind the the values and mutual interests along with their attraction.
Though this type is rare, it is gradually gaining momentum among the youngsters who are conscious about their future and well being.
Neverthless, it is impossible that the Boy and the Girl ever were worried about their horoscopes matching. Horoscopes matching becomes a matter of concern only when the matter goes to the consent of the parents.
When the matter of love affair is conveyed to the parents, the very first worry that occupies their mind is horoscopes matching. They will be more worried if the horoscopes are not matching, the married life of their children will not be happy.
But the fundamental fact is that the horoscopes matching verifies if the characters of the Girl and the Boy are such that they will be able to get along together in life and make a cohesive and successful family life.
In the case of an arranged marriage of a girl and a boy new to each other, some yardstick is necessary to with which we can measure the various characteristics of both the Boy and the Girl and to conclude whether they will be able to settle down with each other.The Horoscopes Matching Process is the yardstick, which our forefathers have prescribed, with which we can measure whether a particular Boy and a particular Girl will settle down with each other for the purpose of a lasting married relationship.
The temperaments, characters and behavioural attitudes of both the Boy and the Girl should be cohesive and they should not be physically inconsistent with each other. Only then, the married life will be harmonious.
Horoscope matching process mainly aims at resolving these questions.
In a love affair, this aspect is very much satisfied that the Girl and the Boy have similar or the same wave length of thinking and have a good understanding about each other. Only then a love will develope between a Girl and a Boy.
A Nakshatra Porutham, Raasi Porutham, Gana Porutham – all these mean mostly the fundamental of psychological make up of the individuals. They are arrived at on the principles of probabilities.
In a love affair, all the above are not probable – but are practically evident between the Boy and the Girl.
Of course, there are certain limitations. the characters of the individuals could not have been assessed by the Boy or the Girl in their proper perspective, if the couple were simply carried away by passions and euphoria.
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